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As we go through the rest of Proverbs 31, we'll see God describing the details of what this virtuous woman looks like. “The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life” (verses 11-12). You can trust someone who is worthy and full of valor and strength. They're powerful. They have great might. They are a force of resources and means. You can trust in someone like that. “She seeks wool and flax, and works willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants’ ships; she brings her food from afar” (verses 13-14). If she fits this definition, then she is rich. She has the means, resources and ability to do these things. “She considers a field, and buys it: with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard” (verse 16). She can do so because she's rich, successful and hard-working. We can't skip over verse 17, “She girds herself with strength, and strengthens her arms” ("New King James Version"). I like what my spiritual father says, “She ain’t no chicken woman.” She’s strong. She is not scared of anything. “Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land” (verse 23). This is the description of the ideal family as God intended. In this age of social media, people often point their finger and say, “Those people just post the good things. You never know what’s going on behind the scenes. They make themselves look like the perfect family.” Well, such a thing does exist and it is described in several places in the Bible. This is our goal! We should always be reaching toward the prize that is set before us in places like Proverbs 31 where it lists what the family is supposed to be like. “She opens her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness” (verse 26). There’s a saying that I’ve heard and spoken often, “One word from God can change your life forever.” The virtuous woman can speak a word from God into your life and change things. “She looks well to the ways of her household, and eats not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her” (verses 27-28). Men, listen up. Her husband praises her! He doesn't deride her. He doesn't embarrass her. He lifts her up and praises her. “Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all” (verse 29). These are the daughters taught by a virtuous woman. Elder women are supposed to teach the younger according to the book of Titus. (See Titus 2:3-4.) “Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates” (verses 30-31). Not only will the virtuous woman who fears the Lord have favor and beauty, but she shall also be praised. Remember, one of the attributes of a diamond that determines its value is a multifaceted cut. It is no coincidence that Proverbs 31 seems to be describing some sort of Wonder Woman superhero! She is multifaceted and therefore highly valuable. From manufacturing to real estate, from physical fitness and ferocity to shipping and exports, there seems no end to her God-ordained abilities and anointing! V This article is adapted from the book by David Weeter titled, "The Diamond In Your Household of Faith." Dr. David Weeter is an author, speaker and founder of David Weeter Ministries. David teaches real people how to face real challenges with real faith in a real God to achieve real victory. For more information, go to davidweeter.org. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * The Bible does not actually say that the husband is the head of the household. When we realize our roles and places according to Scripture, wives will sparkle and shine with radiance and husbands will truly appreciate and honor the gems with which the Lord has blessed them! "The Diamond In Your Household of Faith" by Dr. David Weeter paperback Now $9.99 reg $11.95 #B200503 kcm.org/mag 1-800-600-7395 (U.S. only) FREE standard shipping included. Offer price valid until May 31, 2020 ****************************************** 25 : BVOV

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